Wednesday 2 February 2011

Love yourself - day 2 - love your tummy

Yesterday we kicked off our 14 days till Valentine's Day Love Yourself campaign. We know that feeling good about yourself can be hard when your body is a completely different shape, your emotions are in a muddle and sleep is something you dream of. Which is why every day we're going to give you a reason to love your pregnant and new mum self.

Day 2: No need to hold in your tummy
Most women spend a good amount of their lives holding their tummy in. They wear uncomfortable body shaping pants and jeans that need to have the button undone when they sit down. But when you're pregnant you can breathe a sigh of relief. No matter how much you suck it in, that tummy is there. And it's beautiful. Perhaps for the first time in years, you can confidently wear a tight fighting top over your tummy and be proud of how it looks. So stop hiding under the baggy shirts, get yourself a fitted top instead, wear it with pride and most importantly, enjoy not having to hold your tummy in!

For new mums, that post baby belly can take some getting used to. It takes a while to get back to normal - despite what celebrities miraculously manage to do - and it might never return to its previous washboard state (assuming you were lucky enough to have one of those in the first place!) But cut yourself some slack. That belly has taken nine months to grow, don't expect it to shrink in weeks. Love it for what it has achieved and what it has carried. And if you're still not feeling comfortable about it, try one of these nursing tops which are cut long, keeping everything covered while you feed your baby and they're exceptionally comfortable.

So whether you're still carrying your baby or already have your little bundle, love your tummy. And enjoy the occasional treat - like these scrummy Valentine's chocolates which you could win if you just Like Us on Facebook or leave a comment below telling us how you feel about your tummy.



Have a LOVEly day!

6 comments:

  1. I love my tummy because I luckily don't have any stretchmarks, but most importantly, I love the beautiful little babies that grow inside my tummy

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  2. After having 3 children all by C-section my tummy isn't in the best shape and I do let it get to me at times but I only have to sit and think that it has created 3 beautiful children and I soon forget how bad I feel about it x

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  3. Sonia - I think lots of mums feel the same. We all just need to change the way we view what a perfect tummy is. Perhaps perfect isn't the flat unblemished one, but the one that looks like it's done what it was designed to do.

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  4. I had a baby 4 months ago and he was a whopping 10lb 13ozs so my poor old tummy is far from looking it's best! I hate not being able to get trousers that fit as there is no such size as not pregnant but still got the stomach size! At the end of the day I thing we are all too hard on ourselves and we need to step back and look at the beautiful babies that our tummies nurtured x

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  5. Congrats on your baby Bloggomy. That is a whopper! Your tummy deserves a medal

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